Savage Love Letter of the Day: My Heart Wants Him, My Dick Doesn’t

Love the podcast, Dan.

I’m in my very early 20s, gay cis male, living in the Emerald City. I’ve been seeing a guy for a few months now and I really love spending time together with him. He is a total catch: great personality, sane, good looks, etc. We’re not really a couple, but we are spending several days a week together: going to parks, bars, events, getting dinner, things like that… I’d really like it to evolve into something more long-term.

Unfortunately, it’s been horribly awkward when it comes to sex. I have zero sex drive when I’m spending time with him and I cannot get that hard at all. It’s fairly embarrassing and problematic because

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