Savage Love Letter of the Day: How to Satisfy a Troglodyte


Unsatisfied troglodyte here. I’m a straight regular bloke with a rather high sex drive. I’ve had both long- and short-term relationships, was even married for a short time, but the sad constant in my relationships is that after the first few months it’s all downhill sexually for me. I understand that relationships have to evolve towards a more stable and comfortable phase with less sexual animality, but that really kills it for me. I have always found myself wanting more sexually from my partners than they’re capable of delivering after that first adrenaline driven phase, and that frustrates me to no end. I don’t know whether it’s unrealistic expectations or a

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