Dear Coleen: We’re in our early 20s but my girlfriend doesn’t want sex

Dear Coleen

My girlfriend and I don’t have sex regularly. I’m a highly-sexed guy and want it constantly. I’m not naive enough to think we should be having it all the time, but to have no sexual contact in months is just not going to work for me.

I’m only 22 and my girlfriend is 20, so surely we should be enjoying sexual experiences rather than acting like a pair of old age pensioners?

Any advice?

Coleen says

You might just not be compatible sexually and if it’s not working for you and you can’t accept things the way they are long term, then you have to be honest with her.

Of course sex is a very important factor, but it’s more about compatibility as opposed to notching up how many times you do it a week. If neither of you had a high sex drive, then that would work – you’d be compatible.

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