High Sex

He seemed normal at first (whatever that means.) Looking back, what should have been red flags I wrote off as the misunderstandings that can occur early in a relationship when you don’t know the other person well. More: I had it all — until my boyfriend gave me an ultimatum I should have left him […]

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Dan Savage (OC Weekly file photo) I found your column after a Google search. I saw your email address at the bottom and was hoping for some insight. My issue is this: Two years into our 23-year marriage, my wife declared that she didn’t want to kiss me or perform oral on me. Several years […]

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Tweet My boyfriend of eight months, K, and I are polyamorous. We started the relationship on that foot, and for a while I was the partner he spent the most time with. There have been ups and downs, but overall our relationship is solid and loving. However, recently we both started dating the same woman, […]

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